Monday, April 18, 2016

To my chosen few

What does being in a sorority really mean?  Some might think its pillow fights and parties.  Beer bongs and skipping class.  Frat guys and secret stuff.  If you ask me, being a part of greek life means sisterhood.  The Alpha Gamma Delta Purpose reads, "To cherish friendships with but a chosen few, and to study the perfecting of those friendships." Sisterhood is the basis of greek life.  It is the glue that holds us together.  It is what most seek when rushing a sorority.

We sometimes get caught up in life.  I get it.  Adulting is hard stuff.  But, when we loose sight of what makes us greek women, we become unbalanced.  Sisterhood is the one thing that binds us as sisters.  No badge, song, ceremony, or white dress can deem you a sister if you are not all of the things sisterhood entails. 

Sisterhood means going to lunch dates.  Picking her up at 2 am off the side of the road because her friend left her at the bar.  Surprising her with ice cream when she's had a bad day.  Reminding her to pay her dues.  Borrowing her clothes.  Always having someone to take countless pics with.  Late night group message convos.  Supporting her when she is fighting with her roommate.  Making her show up to events so she won't get fined.  Being able to tell her your deepest darkest secrets.  Always having a date to the date party. 

To be honest, sisterhood means more than I can type.  The only word that comes close to describing what sisterhood truly means is the purest and truest love. 

I realize now, as I write this that only Alpha Gams may fully understand what I am saying but I hope that everyone will learn something from this.   Being in a sorority isn't the stereotypical experience for everyone.  I have felt nothing but unconditional love and support from my sisters.  I am thankful everyday that I am lucky enough to be a part of this amazing sisterhood.  

Friday, March 18, 2016

Poncho's Big Move

I wrote this children's book for an assignment for school and I thought I would share!  It is inspired by my miniature horse, Poncho and his new buddy Riot. I love how it turned out so let me know what you think! :)
Poncho’s Big Move

Poncho is a funny name for a miniature horse, I thought, staring at his furry little body in an old photograph.  He lived on my Grandma’s funny farm where I had seen him once or twice before but never given him much attention.  When I heard the words “Poncho is coming to live with us!” come out of my mother’s mouth, I immediately gained interest.  
Grandma and her smorgasbord of pets lived deep in the woods of Virginia, miles from a Walmart.  I never minded trips to her house because I got to play with her sheep, llamas, donkeys, and other assorted farm animals.  I had not seen her since she got sick though.  She began to digress and was losing the ability to do manual labor that having farm animals entails.  Grandma knew that we were looking for a companion for my horse so she knew to call us when the time came.  
She began to find other homes for her high maintenance animals. A few sheep went to an old friend that ran a wool farm and the donkey went to a distant neighbor.  Her miniature pony was set to come to our house in Maryland.  The only problem with this was transportation: Poncho had never been in a horse trailer in his life!  He had a three hour ride ahead of him.  
When his homecoming day arrived, my older sister and mom loaded the truck and trailer with hay and set off for Virginia.  Seven hours later, “BEEP BEEP”, the truck rested in the driveway with a swaying trailer in tow.  I ran down to the barn to give my horse, Riot, a pep talk.  
“Your new roommate is here!” I screeched. “Just don’t step on him, he’s little.”
As I ran back up the hill, the trailer's tiny passenger door swung open, exposing a snout hanging six inches from the ground.  
“OH MY GOSH!” I exclaimed.  “I had no idea he was THAT small!” I squatted to the ground to get a better look at him.  His hairy little head swiveled to face me, showing his worried eyes and tired expression.  I crept toward him, still squatting, keeping our eye contact.  As soon as I got close enough, he stretched out his neck, pressed his nostril against my knee, and sneezed.  He shook his head as snot went flying through the air toward me.  I fell back onto the pavement with a yelp.  When I got my bearings back, I sat up and looked at him.  His expression deepened into a sort of apology.  I crept closer to him once more as he rested his head in my hands.


Poncho’s next hurdle to cross was exiting the trailer he so reluctantly entered.  This would be an easy task since he hates that box on wheels.  I was surprisingly wrong.  He resisted as he pulled and yanked at the leadline countering my mom’s weight.  Something must have persuaded him because in an instant, he darted with a heroic leap out of the trailer landing on the pavement with legs spread.
Once he got his footing on the slippery pavement, he lifted his snout as high as it would go, which was only about four feet, and took a mighty inhale.  He realized he was no longer at Grandma’s farm with the sheep, llamas, and chickens.  Does he know how far he has traveled today?  But he is staying for good! I reassured myself as I smiled and watched him explore his new home.
After he thoroughly investigated the black pavement and surrounding vehicles, his ears followed by his head, jerked up.  Riot whinnied a boisterous sound.  
“He is saying hello… I hope” I reassured Poncho.  He wasn’t paying much attention to me though.  His entire body pointed in the direction of the noisy horse as he trotted down the hill to the barn.  He could not yet see Riot but they were already holding a full conversation!  It sounded like a full orchestra of whinnies and neighs in different tones and pitches.  A constant stream of noise came from both horses until their eyes met.  
Riot has never seen a miniature horse before… Right?  As I pondered, he leapt backwards as if to gasp and say, “What is this creature you have brought to my home?” He lowered his head and cautiously stepped towards the newbie.  Poncho had lived with horses before so he wasn’t shocked at all at the giant in front of him.  The two met face to face with a second of intense staring followed by a few sniffs, a squeal, and off they went!  They walked side by side through the pastures to find a shady place to munch on grass.  They became instant friends.


In the following days, Riot helped Poncho continue to explore his new home.  Poncho was adjusting well but there was one last obstacle before he was free to roam: bath time.  To our knowledge, he had never received a bath in his life.  We knew it was going to be a challenging process but it needed to be done.  He was matted with dirt and smelled like a wet dog.  
“Today is the day!” I shouted as I skipped down the hill to the barn.  I put Poncho’s halter on and led him out of the barn and up to the deck.  As my mom prepared the hose and soap, Poncho was naively grazing in our backyard.  He was clueless as to what was about to happen.
“Ready?” Mom asked and she held the head of the hose.  I nodded to her as she pulled the trigger of the hose and aimed it at Poncho’s rear.  As soon as the cold water met his back, he kicked out his little legs and let out a long squeal.  I yelled at my mom to stop so I could regain control.  I held on to his halter tighter this time as she squirted him again.  This time he took off in the opposite direction of us, practically dragging me across the grass headed anywhere but in the hose’s direction.
I regained control for a second time and crouched down next to him and whispered, “We are only trying to help!”  He had a sense of relief in his eyes as I scratched the middle of his forehead.  I had my mom squirt him again while I was at his eye level.  He flinched at the initial shock but then calmed down.  As I looked into his big brown eyes, I realized that being on his eye level calmed him down.  Poncho doesn’t know how to look up at you so he would stare at your legs which is impersonal and rude.  By crouching down to his level, he saw me as a person instead of two moving sticks in boots.  
I sat in the grass with Poncho as he dried off, watching him graze in the yard.  He is a quirky little guy who just wants to be loved, I thought as I admired his valiant efforts.  We made a connection during his bath as he trusted me with his life.  Ever since that day, me and my little Poncho have been best friends.

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

My Recruitment Story

So it all began my fall semester of freshman year.  I was living with my sister in an off campus apartment and knew one girl.  I had one friend.  That is so not me.  I have always had an amazing core group of friends so this was a huge shock to me.  I lacked a lot of the typical socializing that dorms provide.

Needless to say, I HATED school.  After sleepless nights and countless calls to my mom, I wanted to transfer and never look back.  I picked my schools to apply too and had it all figured out.  I was set on leaving.

But I stayed.  I told myself that I had to stick it out one more semester and then I could transfer. So, I signed up for sorority recruitment in the fall.  I didn't really have any expectations or predispositions like many girls do.  I was walking in blind. (which turned out to be the best thing ever)

First day of recruitment rolls around and I walked in alone. (story of my life)  But to my surprise, I met some amazing girls who are just as nervous as me!  We lined up for our first party.  Me, still clueless as to what is going on.  I didn't gel with the girls in my first party but thought that was normal.  You know the drill, smile and wave.

Time to line up for our second party.  By this time, me and the girl in front of me are buddies.  We walked into the party and immediately loved it.  There was red, yellow, and green decor and adorable pictures on the walls.  I talked to some amazing girls, all in the same family.  We talked about netflix and gossip girl and chili and full house.  It just felt normal.  The entire rest of the day, I kept saying "Dang.  I really liked that rasta sorority!"

So, day two and three rolls around, yup, still loved that rasta sorority!

Flash forward to bid day.  I had two sororities left.  My favorite, and my least favorite.  (of course)  I was so nervous to open my bid.  I was blowing up my friends phone who I had met through recruitment freaking out.  I barely knew the girl yet she was talking me down from a nervous rampage.

I open my bid, and guess what colors I see.  Red, Yellow, and Green.  I was offered a bid from my favorite sorority, Alpha Gamma Delta.

In the following weeks, I went through the initiation process and was given a big and joined my family.  Remember that girl whose phone I was blowing up?  Yup, she is now my cousin. I immediately fell into a huge group of girls who became my best friends.  Now I have events, socials, meetings, and parties to attend with my best friends.  I am so busy and I love it.



Going greek has opened so many doors for me that I am forever grateful for.  I have met so many amazing people and been a part of amazing things.  I am so thankful that I stayed at Towson and signed up for recruitment because I wouldn't change this for the world.

As recruitment steadily approaches this semester, I can not wait to be apart of other girls' recruitment stories.  So, if you haven't already, consider going greek.  You will find your forever home.  I promise, you won't regret it.


Saturday, December 26, 2015

Classroom Friendly Supplies Review

I know I have been on a hiatus from blogging but I promise, I AM BACK!  I am very excited to present a review on this amazing product.  If you are an educator, parent, or a person who uses pencils, fasten your seat belts.  This product will change they way you write.  



Classroom Friendly Supplies is a company created and owned by an elementary teacher who was fed up with loud, disruptive pencil sharpeners that didn't work.  So, he created this quiet and efficient sharpener.  I first found this company on Pinterest when my sister put it on her Christmas wish list.  After some research and emails, I was sent a cool blue sharpener to try!


This sharpener is like no others.  It is a manual pencil sharpener that is cute, quiet, and easy to use!  Each sharpener is $24.99 with free shipping!  They come in a variety of colors and bundles that are very cost effective.  Another amazing aspect to this product is that you can purchase replacement parts for a low cost.
Click HERE to watch a short video demonstrating the purpose and use of the sharpener!


 There are two black knobs on the top that clamp the pencil in place.  The crank on the back turns the gears to sharpen the pencil and there is a clear bucket in the bottom that collects the shavings.
You just pinch and pull the knobs forward, insert a pencil and release.  Turn the crank on the back until desired sharpness.  I love this sharpener because it takes only THREE turns of the crank to resharpen pencils.  It is very easy to use and very discrete, perfect for the classroom!


Both me and my sister have fallen in love with this pencil sharpener and will definitely be using and repurchasing Classroom Friendly Supplies Sharpeners for years to come!  Thank you very much to May Viola and the Classroom Friendly Supplies team!

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Life.

"Life gets in the way sometimes."  I've heard this saying over and over and never fully understood it until finals week.

You may have noticed that I have been absent from Bmore You the past few weeks.  I regret this and wish I could post amazing content everyday but I can only do so much.  I am in the middle part one of hell week.  Yes, pre-finals week.  Today is my last day of class.  Now I have one paper and three finals in between me and sweet freedom.

Between Christmas, finals, Alpha Gam, family, and sleep, I have had absolutely no time to be a real person.  I have barely texted people, gone out to lunch, or watched Netflix.  THAT is when you know you are busy.  Am I right?

But here I am.  In the final days of my fall semester of sophomore year.  Stressed out in sweats and a messy bun living off of coffee.  I am feeling quite accomplished that I managed to put on some eyeliner and chapstick on today.  (sad, huh?)  Today, I took two exams who kicked my butt.  At this point, I do not really know how to feel about school, or anything for that matter.

I have so many ideas planed for amazing blog posts and haven't had the time or resources to do them! I have already decided that this will be my main goal over Christmas break.  Prepare yourselves for some thrift hauls, holiday recipes, winter lookbooks, product reviews and much more!

I have been showered with love and support for my blog and I am sincerely appreciative of all of my readers. I do not know how to describe the feeling when people say how much they love reading your creations and how it helps them bond with their friends and family.  I started Bmore You because I am a person who HATES confrontation and attention.  I was embarrassed to tell people that I have a passion for fashion. I know it sounds silly but it is a personal thing that I was nervous how the world would perceive it.  So thank you for being so supportive and accepting of me.  The real, true me.  It blows me away that I am inspiring others to be themselves.  I am reaching my goal of connecting with others and I couldn't be more proud.

So, let me stop babbling and get back to studying.  Thanks for the support and stay tuned for some bomb content!

Happy studying! : )

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Insecurities

I wrote this post a while ago.  Being harshly honest and open.  I never posted it in fear or the reactions.  Ironic right?  But today, I attended a screening of a new documentary called "The Illusionists" by Elena Rossini.  It prompted me to re-think this post and want to share it with y'all.
So, here it goes...

Everyone has insecurities.... right?

I scared myself the other day.  For the first time in my life, I had a "self hate" thought.  Sorority formal is coming up and I thought "hm, my outfit would look so much better if my stomach was flatter.  Maybe I'll eat less the week before so I will look good in pictures."

This stopped right in my tracks.  What was I thinking?  Starving myself to look "slimmer" in photos.  Harming myself.  Why?

All throughout my life, I have had low self esteem.  I have never been one hundred percent comfortable with my body and appearance.  But I had accepted that "fact" and was content with being "less than".  I tried everything.  Ate well.  Worked out.  Drank water.  Nothing made me feel completely comfortable with my body.

I have always hated how my stomach looked.  Always thought it was pudgy and big.  I have never worn tight clothing without covering up my stomach.  I do not own a body con dress.  Flowy is my friend.  I've learned how to dress for my body shape to draw attention aware from my stomach to look more flattering.

The fact that I have a fear of people looking at or touching my stomach is so sad.  But the fact is, most people have this.  Maybe its their teeth or toes or thighs or hairline.  Why though?  Why do we hate parts of our bodies?  Our bodies are amazing and unique.  No two stomachs are the same.  Why do we compare ourselves to actresses, singers, athletes, and our peers.

I am here to say that I love my body.  I love my pudgy tummy and my chicken skin on my arms and my uneven eyebrows and my long toes and my freckles on my legs.  I love my body and I pledge to uplift myself and accept my body.  I promise to stop comparing myself to others.

I invite you to address your insecurities.  Accept them.  Love them.

Sunday, November 8, 2015

The Fashion Tag

I am going to complete the "fashion tag" and answer fourteen questions about my style and my view of fashion.  I hope you enjoy and learn a little something about my personal style! 

1.  What 5 words describe your style?

classic, comfy, preppy, practical, quirky

2.  What are your favorite jeans?

American Eagle Hi-Rise Jegging

3.  What is your most worn piece?

My most worn pieces for fall are vests.  I love to layer them with long sleeve shirts or sweaters and scarves or statement necklaces.  I have 6 and wear them way to much!


4.  What are your favorite shoes?

Keds.  I know they aren't traditionally the most stylish shoes but I wear them all the time.  I like to mix them with a feminine outfit to make it a bit edgier.  They give off  a chill vibe and are super comfortable! 

5.  What is your favorite store?

I go to Marshalls,Tj Maxx, and thrift stores the most because they are affordable and have great finds!

6.  What was your last fashion purchase?

I bought a romper from Nordstrom Rack two days ago for my sorority's formal


7.  Spend or save?

SAVE!

8.  What is your favorite winter outfit?

My go to outfit for fall is a sweater, leggings, scarf, and boots.

9.  Who is your favorite Youtuber?

Casey Holmes

10.  Who is your fashion crush?

Lauren Conrad has been my fashion crush for years!  I love how she rocks looks from romantically sweet to masculine chic.  She always looks put together and powerful, which is my goal.  Her line at Kohls is amazing and I want to raid her closet so bad! 


11.  Heels or flats?

Flats

12.  What is your go to bag?

Vineyard Vines Classic Tote  or my polka dot black cross body from target.  Just depends on the occasion!

13.  What is one splurge item you are lusting after?

I am saving up for a Kate Spade bag and watch


14.  What is your favorite season to dress for?

Fall and winter are my favorite because I love layering!  Vest, scarves, fuzzy socks, sweaters, flannels, boots!  Ah, the BEST

I tag Danielle of Beautiful Disaster!