7 Steps to be a bomb BFF

We have three types of friends in life: friends for a reason, friends for a season, and friends for a lifetime.
True, genuine friends are hard to come by these days so when you find one, hold onto her with all you have and never let go because who else is going to put up with your crap.  

How to be a bomb best friend:

1.  be there for her even if you're hundreds of miles away

It totally sucks being seperated from your bff for a long time.  But, let's be honest... your friendship will stay the same.  

2.  pick up starbucks for the both of you on the way to pick her up for a girls day

You already know what she wants plus you're a gold member so rack up those stars girl!

3.  buy her crap she doesn't need

You know her weaknesses.  Maybe it's cats or mugs or coffee (or all three).  When you are wandering aimlessly through Michaels on tuesday night because you want to avoid adulting for a second and you see a cat mug and the first thing that comes to your mind is her, get it.  Doesn't matter if she has 50 other mugs.  Get it. 

4.  keep her updated

Constantly text and call her.  She wants to know what your life is about and you bet your booty that you wanna know what she's up too!  Send her OOTD pics and let her help you pick out your outfit for a date in real time.

5.  go on dates

Go out to dinner or to the movies or to the grocery.  Who cares.  Just go somewhere with her and have an awesome time.  You know when you are best friends when you can make picking out cat litter the highlight of your weekend.  

6.  always keep it even

You are going to buy her Starbucks.  Then she will tip at the restaurant.  Then you will drive.  Then she will buy you that shirt at Goodwill.  Then you send her a package.  It's a cycle.  You never have to worry about paying her back because you know you will in ways that mean more.  

7.  be too honest with her

Tell her all your dirty little secrets and she will tell you hers.  And you know that neither of you will ever peep of it again, without even saying it.  Tell her when that shirt looks icky or she's got pesto stuck in her teeth.  It's never an insult coming from you.  She isn't going to get mad so chill.